Breakfasts
Everyone always says that breakfasts aren’t important. I personally don’t think that true at all. Aside from the obvious nutritional benefits, they’re the first few minutes of the day. I always think you can predict what kind of day you’re going to have based on breakfast - kind of like predicting the weather. You can have breakfasts with family that are full of smiles and laughter. You can have breakfasts that start at the table and end in up bed. Breakfasts where you’re in such a hurry that you don’t have time for anything. Breakfasts alone where you’re left to your thoughts. No matter what kind of breakfast you have I believe they can be a taster for what’s in store.
That’s how I know today is going to be a bad day.
‘Relationships’
I have so many friends who are in hook ups/half-dating kind of relationships and say that they are ‘committed’ to one another, when in reality the relationship is filled with lies, distrust, fighting, drama and lots of crying. Everyone has this idea of the ‘perfect’ relationship, they think that there will be absolutely no fighting in it. They fail to see that in a relationship no matter how much you have in common, you are 2 different people and there are going to be times where you don’t get along. Relationships are supposed to be fun, interesting and exciting all of the time, not just for the first month or so. They’re supposed to be something you can learn from, something that makes you a better and happier person - not turn you into someone who worries and stresses and is unhappier than they were to begin with. It shouldn’t be about trying to have complete control over the other person and trying to change them. It should be honest and natural. It should be like dating your best friend. You should be able to go out without each other and not feel threatened by other people because you trust that other person.
If you’re in a relationship and spend 90% f the time feeling:
- Unhappy
- Jealous
- Unappreciated
- Insecure
- Worried
- Uncomfortable
- Uneasy
- Threatened
- Stressed
- Fighting
Then you should move on (as hard as that may be) to someone who makes you happier, who makes you feel like you are in the ‘perfect’ relationship without even trying.
/end rant.
